Tuesday, June 2, 2026

One Word - Infinite Meanings

Warren Buffett has always given sage advice and wisdom to so many people.  His wealth has provided a wealth of proverbs in financial affairs, and life.  With so many quotes and observations to chose from, it was with great interest I saw an internet post titled;  

Warren Buffett explained that the greatest measure of success at the end of your life comes down to 1 word

"When you get to my age, you’ll really measure your success in life by how many of the people you want to have love you actually do love you . . . that’s the ultimate test of how you have lived your life . . . the more you give love away, the more you get. "   Warren Buffett

LOVE -  Or as I have sometimes said - "Let Others Vulnerabilities Emerge"   The best way to acheive this is for you to be vulnerable first.  Love first and then this opens others to Love also.

Our small group at Crossroads are reading "Start with Amen" by Beth Guckenberger of Back to Back Ministries.  I always felt that courage was one of, if not the highest viture.  She makes the point in her book - "Is it possible love is what gives us courage, holds our hands, and fights along side us?"  Love trumps all virutes!  

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Monday, June 1, 2026

Reds High Hopes

Sunday was a wonderful day of fellowship with Family, Friends and Community at the Red's Game.  Susan, Ellen, Teddy and Wes got to see the Red's win against the Atlanta Braves sitting out in right field with the Armstrong Church and Madisonville Braves community.  It reminded me of June 16, 2019 with Ellen doing the same thing (thank goodness for easy inquiry of Google Photos).  

All in the cost for the day was $250-$300 (tickets, parking, concessions) so it is hard for me to understand how families can afford even going to ball games now. But on an entertainment hourly basis that is $15/hr per person and in that light maybe reasonable.  

More importantly, the real entertainment is seeing the excitement of a 3 and 5 year old experience their first major league baseball game.  A family in front of us even had their own sign indicating that for their children trying to get on the jumbo tron. 

Teddy brought his glove and had high hopes.  There was a Red's homerun near us in the seventh inning but too far to catch.  Still - very exciting.



Thursday, May 28, 2026

Generational Gifts

The Vistage Alumni group accepted my topic for our last meeting (5/21/2026).  We each described out family tree from Great Grandparents through Grandchildren.  A way to get to know each other better (even though we have been meeting monthly since 2004.  Just shows you can "know" someone for 22 years and still "not know" them.  

The exercise motivated me to update the obsolete cell phone contact I had with my oldest cousin K,W,  What a wonderful 1 hour call to get any stories about our common grandfather, and any family lore about our great grandfather. It amazed me how little I know anything about my 8 great grandparents.  So trying to document what values,traits, vitures, vices, behaviors, traditions etc. have been passed down to me and what am I trying to pass down to my grandchildren was not easy.   

Investigating the tools - Ancestry.com, Familysearch.org, Gramps Software was fun and reintroduced me to the geneology "rabbit hole",  A,S, my genelogy friend also provided great advice and council during this exercise.  I even loaded this blogging website into Copilot and asked for advice about what values it could predict I had "inherited" and/or would be passing down.  Then using that chat along with Gemini Pro developed two infographics for Generational Transfer and Wisner Family Legacy Statement.

Wisner Family Family Legacy Statement final thought on the slide - "What starts with one person can change generations.  What is passed down does not have to be perfected - it has to be lived.  And through love, faith and intention - we continue the story."   



Tuesday, April 21, 2026

Bella - Rescue to Beloved

Today was a sad day as Bella (our second rescue black/lab mut) died (2/2011 - 4/2026).  She outlasted her brother Fitch by a year and a half.  She was practically blind and deaf at the end but still could manage walking around the property (although most of the time she was sedentary).  Based on my last analysis (see Rufferee's Time Out), Bella proved the statistics that females outlast males by 1-2 years.  

Wally is now our single dog and I'm sure there will be some family discussion concerning whether a new dog and friend for Wally should be acquired.  

The whole family will miss Bella.  Such great memories for 15 years.


Sunday, February 15, 2026

Amazing Grace as That Peaceful Easy Feeling

 At the Cincinnati Men's Walk to Emmaus commissioning the Praise Band leader asked the congregation how many people like the hymn "Amazing Grace"?  All hands raised up.  Then he asked how many people like the Eagles? Nearly every hand followed.   Then the band broke out into:


Wow -  what a moment of Grace with a peaceful easy singing.

Sunday, January 25, 2026

Sunday "Fern" Day


The snow continues to fall today (12:04pm) keeping everyone inside across the country.  This will easily be a record one day accumulation for Cincinnati (now at 6 inches) and likely multiple day top ten. 

Early January 2025 (5-6) there was a 9 inch to 11 inches of accumulation.  Topping the chart was Feb. 4-6, 1998, of 18.5 inches and will remain the winner.  

The Weather Channel now likes to name storms and we have reached the letter "F" - hence Fern is the name.  The names are pre assigned each year so we already know that "Gaius" in on deck.   How coincidental since I have been rewatching the entire 2004 remake of Battlestar Galactica with Gaius Baltar the scientist.  Gaius is a common Roman first name (Gaius Julius Caesar, Gaius Octavius are the famous ones).

The definition of a "named" storm requires 2 million people affected or 400,000 sq miles of National Weather Service Warning.  Alas - the Winter Storm of January 5-6, 2025, was not named nor was Feb. 4-6, 1998 since the Weather Channel didn't start naming storms until 2012.  

I wonder if you started naming "Storms in Your Life" what would be the criteria - health, emotions, family crisis, financial pressure/loss, etc.  How would you go about the naming?  

My Storms in Life - Janus (1987); Hades (1999); Exodus (2001); Alecto (2007); Cassandra (2011); Mnemosyne (2015); Prometheus (2019); Atlas (2021).

It is the storms in our life that we weather through - persevere.  No matter how stormy - they pass by and we can say we survived to live another day.   My storms didn't break me; they carved me into someone who understands the need for spiritual foundation and faith that hope always endures - that even those stormy memories will build into eternal joy.   


Saturday, January 17, 2026

Who Goes Home?

                                               "Who Goes Home?"

A journey south from Kansas City toward Wichita is not the sort of trip most travelers circle on a map. It doesn’t boast dramatic peaks or ocean views. But for someone who once called Wichita home—someone whose parents have already stepped into the brighter country beyond—this drive becomes something far more intimate. It’s a return to the land that shaped you, a quiet pilgrimage through memory, belonging, and the kind of beauty that doesn’t shout for attention but waits patiently to be noticed.


Not long after leaving the city’s edges, the highway begins to slip into the Flint Hills— the largest intact tallgrass-prairie ecosystems left on earth. These hills are ancient, older than the Rockies, their limestone and flint layers formed when this region was a shallow inland sea. Today they roll out in long, breathing waves, covered in grasses so deep‑rooted they’ve resisted the plow for centuries. Entering them feels like crossing a threshold into a gentler, older world.



In the late afternoon, when the sun leans low, the tallgrass catches fire—not with heat, but with a golden radiance that seems to rise from within the land itself. Scattered across those glowing slopes are the cattle: small black silhouettes, like ink‑dots brushed onto a vast amber canvas. Some graze with slow, deliberate contentment; others stand motionless, broad backs soaking in the last warmth of the day. Their presence gives the hills a sense of scale and serenity, as if the land itself were at peace and inviting you to share in its rest.

What you begin to notice—almost with surprise—is what isn’t there. For nearly forty miles, there are no exits, no billboards, no fast‑food signs clawing at your attention. Only the occasional enclosed service area interrupts the long, uninterrupted ribbon of highway. The absence of commercial clutter feels like a kind of mercy. The road becomes a place where the mind can finally unclench, where the traveler is free to look outward and inward without distraction.

Only a few human marks remain: a solitary cell tower rising like a thin sentinel on a distant ridge; a line of high‑voltage wires striding across the horizon, their steel frames stark against the softening sky. They don’t intrude so much as remind you that civilization lies somewhere beyond these hills, needing its lifelines. But here, in this moment, they seem almost shy—hesitant to disturb the holiness of the evening.


As the sun sinks fully, the sky becomes a vast dome of rose, violet, and fading gold. The cattle settle into darker shapes against the glowing earth. The hills breathe in shadow. And the whole scene feels touched by something otherworldly, the way C.S. Lewis described the green plains of the Real Country - hinting that this world, too, is only a shadow of a truer beauty.

Driving south toward Wichita—toward the place where your story began and where your parents stepped into eternity—the road feels less like a route and more like a gentle invitation. A reminder that the land you came from still whispers of home, and that every sunset over the Flint Hills is a small echo of the greater dawn awaiting beyond this life.