Surrender

Does surrender mean defeat?  The first two definitions refer to war, conflict or giving up control because of force.  However the third definition states:  give something out of courtesy.

So the context of surrender is critical to it's definition.  Maybe the better definition is from the quote: "Surrender is the intersection between acceptance and change."

Surrender is not about giving up ...... it is about giving in.  There is power in giving - both in and out.