The message by Brian Tome (Crossroads Church) this Memorial Day Weekend was about Grace and Truth - John 1:14. Almost like a Myers Brigg personality test, he categorized everyone into two categories - either predominately tendencies to Truth or alternatively to Grace.
Then in classic analytical style he illustrated his point about relationships with a four quadrant visual.
Relationships ebb and flow in all three of the quadrants (Consume, Contract and Covenant) but it is the Covenant we seek long term. The word covenant can me misinterpreted as LAW (like Contract) but I prefer the ecclesiastical definition: