I become much more 'a tune' to following nudges. Those suggestions by people to do things that, without a nudge, you would not do --- you would fall back into your complacency, routine, and comfort zone.
Sometimes the nudge gets more frequent and stronger - maybe a kick in the pants.
Who is nudging you today? Too often we can even get irritated by the messenger. Or if it is a parental nudge we can even get rebellious and move in the opposite direction purposely. Maybe if I pictured the nudger as an angel, I would be more receptive to the message.
How many nudges does it take to move Garen? It depends on the subject matter. Susan has a 20+ history of trying to get that number down to one.
And I have always considered her my angel. :)